LADIES: 5 Ways Guys Try To Break You Down So That They Can Have Sex With You

There’s an art to picking up women. It isn’t an art I especially respect, as the methods themselves are literally damaging, but I will admit that it works 90 percent of the time.It all comes down to simple psychology and the human ego.Once you know how to manipulate people into wanting things and understand how to change their perception of themselves and their surroundings, you can get people to do things they never thought they’d do.Throw in some liquor and other party favors and taking a supermodel home becomes easy.This article isn’t supporting the methods of such pick-up artists, but rather reminding women to be on the lookout.Most women are already familiar with such tricks, but in case you need a refresher course, here are 10 ways guys will break down a woman’s self-esteem just so they can sleep with her:

• THEY’LL PICK ON YOU.

It’s starts off with playful pokes at the way you slouch, the way your lipstick smudges on your teeth, the way you waddle when you wear high heels.
Guys want to take your self-esteem down a couple of notches, and to do so, they need to make you aware of your little flaws — flaws that every person has.

• THEY’LL INSULT YOU.

Once they make you feel a bit self-conscious, they’ll cut you down a few more sizes by insulting you to your face. They’ll tell you your dress is ugly. Your hair is greasy. Your ears are too big. Your perfume is disgusting, etc.
They will likely only insult you in one fashion at a time so they don’t scare you away entirely.
But as they are mixing these insults in with regular conversation and possibly even some flattery, you’ll feel less confident in yourself, but not so insulted that you take off.

•  THEY’LL GIVE YOU ATTENTION AND THEN DIVERT IT TO ANOTHER WOMAN.

When a man checks out another woman while he is with his girlfriend, issues usually ensue.
However, when a guy checks out another girl while he is working on picking you up, he’s hoping to strike the chord of jealousy to make you believe you aren’t special — he wants to plant the thought in your head that if you don’t snatch him up, he’ll get snatched up by some other girl.
                    

• THEY’LL HIT ON YOUR LESS ATTRACTIVE FRIEND.

This one is a go-to for all pick-up artists and players alike. When a guy wants to get into your pants, he’ll often start off by hitting on your less attractive friend instead of you.

Doing this often makes women contemplate why it is that they, the prettier ones, aren’t the center of attention. Once he gets you to want his attention, you’re putting the ball back in his court.

• THEY’LL TRY THEIR BEST TO MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE YOU’RE LESS VALUABLE THAN YOU ARE.

Women just aren’t interested in men they deem less valuable than themselves. As human beings, everything we take into consideration, we take into consideration comparatively. We weigh our value in comparison to the value of others.

When women look for a man, they want a man they feel is as valuable as they themselves are, if not more so.

For this reason, since most men can’t increase their value via conversation alone, they do their best to decrease the woman’s value — or rather, her perception of her own value.